All familiar terms that carry finite outcomes serve as an added measure of endearment. Indeed as these terms stand in infamy, they also underscore attachment levels to others. In my opinion, these terms can assist you in determining the why of relationships that separate probability from exactness. Peeling away the layers of an onion creates tears that flow down your cheeks, and when that happens, the reason has been established. The time it takes to realize that onion peeling causes tears depends on the season of discovery. Seizing the moment of remembering the discovery, that experience channels its way into a lifetime of lessons that can now be shared for a reason. This cyclical rotation that never ends is our constant need to understand ourselves. The absolute truth in all of this is to respect the boundaries of life’s journey by placing all things where they need to be.
It’s comforting when one is able to manage the people within their lives knowing that some people may have your best interest at heart, and some just want to use and abuse, while other’s just pretend to like you and are just waiting to see you fail. Overall, people will display either behavior for you to determine who’s, who, to place them right where they need to be in your life. I definitely had to learn this the hard way. But when ever a challenge comes about, that’s when you’ll know who’s really who. A constant reminder to self is healing which also means taking a honest look at the role you play in your own suffering from the company we choose to continue to keep.
( Just give a the LIFETIME people already!!!)