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It Is-What It Is

Posted on February 10, 2026March 6, 2026 by Dr. Ronald Alston, Sr.
Accept what can't be changed, but control your response.
Few phrases in modern language carry as much quiet power and paradox as "It is what it is.' On the surface, it seems simple, almost dismissive. Yet beneath its casual tone lies a profound philosophy about acceptance, c...
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Posted in Dr. Ron, Featured Articles, Psychological Behaviors Tagged can change our response, can't change circumstance, it is what it is Leave a comment

Pain – Change- Resistance

Posted on February 2, 2026 by Dr. Ronald Alston, Sr.
Most people believe their suffering is caused by change. The job ended. The relationship shifted. The world feels unfamiliar. Expectations no longer match reality. Life as it once was is gone. But this belief masks a...
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Posted in Character Flaws, Dr. Ron, Leveraging Your Behavior, Life's Reality, Self-Discovery Tagged Change, fabrication, pain, resistance, Truth Leave a comment

Dealing With Today’s Political Climate

Posted on January 24, 2026February 22, 2026 by Dr. Ronald Alston, Sr.
  DON'T BUY INTO THE POLITICAL HYPE. STAY LUCID! The current political climate can feel overwhelming. Headlines are constant, rhetoric is heated, and social media often turns disagreement into hostility. For man...
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Rejection and Redirection

Posted on January 13, 2026May 24, 2026 by Dr. Ronald Alston, Sr.
Rejection is one of the most misunderstood experiences in life. It arrives uninvited, stings deeply, and often feels personal. A declined application, a missed opportunity, an unanswered message, or a door slammed shut...
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Living the Life or the Dream

Posted on January 5, 2026February 22, 2026 by Dr. Ronald Alston, Sr.
An illustration of giving your best.
In a world obsessed with 'dreaming big,' success is often measured by the loudest achievements, such as job titles, luxury lifestyles, fame, and follower counts. We're conditioned to believe that if we are not living...
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Posted in Creating Opportunity, Featured Articles, Self-Discovery, Understanding Your Significance Tagged dream, living life, success Leave a comment
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Discover who you are in the purest sense. (121) Self-Discovery - <p>How to manage your behavior is critical to navigating this life we now live. The control you can deliver can make the difference between heartache and victory.</p> (85) Leveraging Your Behavior - This category points out specific points of view that are near and dear to me. Living this life of bumps and bruises gives a perspective that no one else has seen. Coming through that reality and identifying what that experience also allowed me to share how I made it through the challenges. (71) Dr. Ron - <p>To be proud is a relateable purpose. Knowing your purpose is important. I read somewhere that the two most important days in your life are when you were born and then finding out why.</p> (44) Understanding Your Significance - Most of what you do in life should support what you leave behind. Your legacy should tell a story about who you are and what you have done. The pride of achievement should be shared when you are alive to appreciate it and see for yourself. (42) Creating Your Legacy - <p>Discovering who you are can define how you elect to handle a crisis. The subject of all you do is the defining moment when you have arrived.</p> (39) Handling Crisis - We all have flaws in our character, which means that no one is perfect. The test for this reality lies with your complete acceptance of this known fact. (34) Character Flaws - <p>Racial unrest has settled beneath the rock of human disgrace. These articles are candid responses to the horror of racism.</p> (32) Racial Strife - <p>As a war veteran, I shared many of my experiences. These experiences helped to define me, but even then, I found my true character. Learning to stay positive has been my guiding light.</p> (31) Veterans - A job never appreciated. A job that should be revered. What can be done to bring education into the 21st Century? (28) Teaching - <p>Much of what we see and learn carry the question marks. That means that our exposures in life can be false impressions of what's around the corner.</p> (27) Falsehoods - This category features books I have written that tell my story in detail. If you want to know who I am and what I've been through by the book. (25) Featured Books - <p>Patterns are repetitive acts created by the human mind. Depending on the person being evaluated, these patterns can be constructive and destructive to the human psyche.</p> (23) Psychological Behaviors - <p>Our lives are filled with emotions, some good, some bad if we can meet those bad emotions directly by being honest, more times than not, we can avoid deeper depression.</p> (22) Assigning Emotional Crisis - (22) Featured Articles - <p>There are countless accounts of the misuse of the law and who the injustices are played upon. Know for sure that racism is alive and well.</p> (21) Law Injustices - It's not enough to think, but knowing how to think is critical. Think as though you research everything. (19) Thinking Methodologies - This category must be one of the most important discoveries of a lifetime. Each article gives you a deeper look into our government packaging and how a few nearly destroy the faith of millions. (17) Government Obstruction - Be careful who you give your allegiance to without learning as much as you can about the other person. (15) Misplaced Loyalty - These articles support the notion of relevance when dreaming, but it also speaks to waking up and making those dreams come true. (14) Dreams - You create an opportunity. Make sure when it knocks that you are ready to answer. (12) Creating Opportunity - What do they mean? How can we protest the sanctity of human interaction? (12) Relationships - <p>Who are they? We'll never know unless we try to help them along the way.</p> (11) Teenagers - (10) PTSD - <p>This category will allow others to write an article based on experience, curiosity, a belief, or a challenge.</p> (10) Public Testimony - Getting to know yourself can be a challenge, but your perspective on life is a great deal easier once that happens. (10) Redefining Purpose - <p>As a retired police officer, I know a great deal about the law and the proper conduct that should follow. What we experience now is not my idea of good policing. Learn why.</p> (9) Policemen - Racism! What is it, and why does no one admit it exists? Read and choose. (9) Racism - Life offers many lessons, all of which should be analyzed and practiced. (9) Appreciation - Many people like the idea of writing that first book but never begin trying. Perhaps knowing how would help. 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You are the subject of all you elect to do.</p> (4) Pride Restored - <p>Young adults become older adults, but the depths of your integrity determine the measure of a man.</p> (4) Young Adults - This category teaches what white privilege truly means. (4) Political Affluence - An exclusive category for those who wish to discover more about who they are by understanding why they are. There are causes and affects to all that we do, and held within that discovery behaviors can be examined and treated. (4) The Existence of Behavioral Patterns - Anger is the symptom of many other emotional conditions. If you determine the source of your anger, many of your problems could be resolved. 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